Welcome back to the “12 Days of Results!” Today is day four and the topic is turn-offs, or what I like to call deal breakers, that won’t score you a second date.
Well it seems like these guys don’t know what the hell they are looking for because when asked the #1 reason they wouldn’t take a girl on a second date, their answers were all over the board. But they all had to deal with one common thing…conversation. How it flows, your personality, the vibe you play off each other, etc.
But the #1 turn-off on a first date was a tie between a girl being too self-centered and a girl that talks too much.
One guy said he wouldn’t ask her out again if she “talked about random s*** (friends I don’t know) . I really don’t care because I don’t know them yet.”
And they don’t want to know about all the drama in your life either.
“A suggestion is not tell a guy the problems in your life in the first few dates,” a reader suggested who also said he wouldn’t ask for another date if the girl revealed her ”extra baggage” too early.
This includes any information about an ex-boyfriend or past relationship.
One reader says no matter how hot she is, if she’s talking about an ex all he can imagine is “some guy somewhere drinking with his buddies and is glad she is gone.”
So they don’t want a girl who talks a lot, reveals too much, is full of herself or talks about an ex, but according to the guys, they also don’t want a girl who can’t hold her own in a conversation.
“No matter how hot, if she can’t hold a conversation then I’m not going out with her again,” said a reader.
Another popular answer, not seeming interested. If you don’t make him feel like you are into him or the date, you won’t get asked out on a second one.
But one guy said his biggest turn-off is when a girl is “too excited” and “overwhelming.”
So with all these demands, how can a girl win these days?
Step one…Don’t be self-centered, too revealing or seem uninterested during a date, especially if you want a second one. Avoid talking about past relationships and all the drama that has been circling your life.
Step two…Take Getitwhit’s male reader advice. It’s free and they are trying to help you.
So let’s end the article with more suggestions from the guys on how to score a second date:
“Don’t try to be someone you’re not.”
“The conversation should be equally balanced and not awkward.”
“Highlight your blessings and what your thankful for.”
“She doesn’t have to laugh at my EVERY joke.” (Thank God!)
Venture on Getitgirls and good luck