XXX Behavior — Is Pulling Out The Camera Worth The Risk?

Chris Brown has naked pictures of him swirling around the Internet — are you surprised? He’s the latest celebrity who sent a picture of his privates to a girlfriend that turned into a pissed off ex. Now, he has to swallow his pride and come clean about the photos to family and fans.

This got me thinking about the excitement of trying something new and the risk that follows from bringing this XXX behavior into your bedroom. After all, haven’t we learned from other celebrities who’s bits and pieces have been exposed all over the Internet? Kim Kardashian, Paris Hilton and Vanessa Hudgens may have gotten publicity out of the deal, but could you  imagine the embarrassment of facing your family after something like that became public?

“But we aren’t famous,” “He loves me,” “I get to keep the footage” — none of that matters. We are talking physical evidence of your most intimate moments. Something that, if you have any pride in yourself at all, you don’t want just anyone to see. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had a guy try to pressure me by saying he’ll keep it “private.” I laugh every time because I know that he’s lying. I could let you film me today, piss you off next month and wake up with my most private moments going viral…no thank you.

Let me point out, I’m not knocking people who’ve tried it. I’d be lying if I said that I haven’t done scandalous things behind closed doors with someone I’ve trusted and cared about. Hell, who are we kidding, I’ve done scandalous things behind open ones too. While, I agree that naughty behavior is fun and being bad in the bedroom makes you feel even more sexy, how far is too far? And is the risk of pulling out the camera worth the hour it takes to film?

I’m not in favor of mixing technology and sex. I get the initial appeal and I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t curious. It’s risky, it’s hot, and the idea is a bit of a turn on. But it’s also a suggestion (usually by him) that you might feel pressured to act out. For fear of seeming prudish, you let him pull out the camera or cell phone and before you know it… you’re the star in a new amateur film.

Pictures and video’s can easily be leaked, and unfortunately, with life being as messy as it is, you can’t predict the future. My number one issue with taking naughty pictures and filming during sex is that you never know where the footage could end up. I’ve known friends who’ve got down on camera — now they are either all over the Internet or it’s being passed around the fraternity house.

I have no room to pass judgement. I’ve done things in the sheets at 21 that I wouldn’t do now. And, while I like to experiment sexually, I have common sense. If I’m going to expose myself in that way, it’s going to be with someone that I can trust. The only problem is, how do you know they will always be trustworthy?

So if you decide to perform on camera, make sure you want to do it. Don’t let your significant other pressure you. One thing you must remember, men come and go, but a naked photo or leaked homemade porn will haunt you forever.

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