I’m a nice person. I bend over backwards to help friends in need, but since when have I ever done that for an ex-boyfriend?
The answer is never and I’m not starting today. All the goodness that’s in my heart doesn’t get shared with someone who didn’t deserve it in the first place — you.
Yet you call me up and ask me a favor. And not just any favor. You ask me to hop on a plane and take your spot in court because you can’t go. Instead of stepping up to obligations and responsibilities, you want to go frolic with some girl at a wedding and have the nerve to assume I’d miss a whole days pay to take your place.
What the hell are you thinking?
We haven’t spoken in months and this is what you throw at me? Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not a total bitch. If it was an aunt, uncle, cousin, family friend or best friend getting married — sure I’d help you out. But the fact that you asked me to bail you out so you can go to a stranger’s wedding with a random girl is ridiculous.
I’m not an idiot. I’d expect you to moved on. I’m not blinded by the fact that you have a new girl in your life. But don’t get mad at me when I say I’m not missing out on $100+ for you.
And the fact that you offered to give me a day of pay, is insulting — I’m not a stripper.
I’m done bending over backwards for you. I’ve done things for you that I wouldn’t have done for anyone else. I loved you, you abused it and you keep right on doing the same thing.
You will never learn, but I have.
So thanks for nothing — nothing during our relationship and nothing after. Nothing but constantly reminding me of why we broke up in the first place.
PS.. If I didn’t despise you so much, I would have taken the money.
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what a tool.
This guy really has some guts. Wow. I’m at a loss for words, and that rarely ever happens. This guy is terrible, and terrible guys do not belong in your life. Don’t let him take advantage of your kindness!
Just reading this got me all worked as if it happened to me. The past can be haunting and unforgiving….and by past I mean ex-boyfriends. What-a-douche.
I never comment on your writing, because I am too busy having my own personal dialogue. However, reading this made me experience enough emotion, that I have to say what’s on my mind. First of all, I agree that he didn’t deserve you then and he continues to be lacking now (to say the least). You are such a strong and independant woman, who deserves recognition for taking risks and doing things that others only wish they had enough balls to do. Here’s a little tip I have learned over the years…..lower your expectations of people that bother you…….that way you will continue to be happy, but they will reamain under-achieving, un-liked, and unwanted. I hope you continue to express your frustrations in the written word, so that when he (and you know he will) reads this, he can reflect on the mistakes he has made.
Your responses mean the world to me! Thanks so much for reading and giving me your feedback
Surprise surprise….this guy never ceases to amaze me. Douche, douche, douche!!! We’ve all made these “mistakes” in our lives, we’re not always proud of them looking back but at least now we can say “look here f*ck face, you’re no longer my problem!” And doesn’t that feel good??? I’m proud of you Whit! Keep your bitch hand strong!!
OMG! This is ridiculous/makes me so heated reading! I am proud of you Whit! Some people are such idiots!!!!!!!! I second Lindsay’s comment…keep your bitch hand strong!!! haha