Playtime with young guys is nice here and there, but nothing compares to a man who knows what he wants out of life, isn’t afraid to tell you and has his shit together — in other words, a grown man.
Someone more experienced, both physically and mentally. A guy with stability, a career, some kind of passion.
This is what women want.
Take it from me, there comes a point in a woman’s life where she’ll be done with games. She might still be searching for her “prince,” but she’ll be sick of all the losers with no potential.
I understand that not every older man has these qualities, but you’re more likely to find them with someone in their late 20′s or older. And let me specify, for me, ”older” means a man 5-10 years my senior, but everyone’s definition is different.
Basically, I just want someone who’s idea of a hard day is getting up to earn a living, not putting himself together for a Call of Duty marathon. Now, I’m not hating on younger guys. Hell, how can I? I’ve been with one. And while robbing the cradle can be exciting, the rush will only last so long and it’s nothing compared an actual man with his own place, who can afford to take you on dates and isn’t constantly choosing beer pong with his buddies over you.
Another plus, older guys are less likely to play games because they don’t have the energy to. They’ve been around the block and experienced every type of girl. They know what they can handle and what girls they want to avoid. The older men get, the less likely they are to waste time on someone they don’t want to be with — and we as women need that reassurance. We want to know that we aren’t being led on and our partner isn’t taking advantage of us. More than half of the time, a younger guy isn’t capable of giving that reassurance.
Now let’s talk sex — while a young guy can sometimes be a wild buck in bed, older guys can be freaking stallions who rock your entire body from limb to limb — at least that’s my experience. Getting down with someone older is completely different and this goes for men and women. With experience, comes confidence. Older men and women are more comfortable of letting their ambitions and concerns go in the bedroom. They have enough confidence to tell their partner what works and what gets them off. The older you get, the more eager you will be to have your fantasies met — and the more vocal you will be about them. An older man will pull these desires out of you.
And finally, older guys have a vision. They are working towards something — busting their ass at their career and thinking of their future – that’s appealing. Like one reader said. “they [older guys] aren’t working at the mall part-time, living with their parents and have things like AC in their car.”
Older men are not only sexy and more sincere, they have their shit together — and when women grow up, that’s what they really want.