The phrase “I’m sorry” is simple, yet it’s impact over women is beyond effective.
It can turn your girl from raging, mega-bitch back into the sweet, good hearted woman you fell in love with. Just saying those two magic words is easy, so why do so many men neglect saying them?
Maybe it’s their egos, the fact they don’t give a shit or they might actually think they are in the right. My bet is #3. Unfortunately, to keep peace in a situation with your unhappy woman, you must put away your pride. Just say “I’m sorry,” regardless if you feel we are overreacting. If we are, we’ll come to that realization on our own but we want to know you are sorry first.
Unfortunately, too may good guys don’t follow this advice and leave their girlfriend wondering “does he even give a shit that he hurt my feelings?” It’s the assholes who cheat and lie who use the “I’m sorry” phrase too well and often.While I’m not encouraging good guys to follow the footsteps of their dickwad counterparts, they can use these two words more loosely. And most of the time, “I’m sorry too” will come out of your girlfriend’s mouth after you give it up.
Girls just want to know that you understand where their rage and overreacting comes from. It’s not our imaginations getting the best of us, you actually did something to make us feel upset and, while some of us take it to another level, it stems from something you said/did or didn’t say/do. When you leave dead silence in the air, it makes us realize you might not actually get that. Therefore, you could never understand how we feel.
Then we begin to rethink the relationship and overanalyze.
So, if you care and want your girlfriend to know, simply say “I’m sorry” in an argument — even the tiniest one because she will appreciate it. It’s saying you understand where she’s coming from and you’re sorry for making her feel that way.
End of argument… onto makeup sex — you’re welcome!
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