Express Your Damn Self!

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An update on what I’ve learned during my time in Australia.

Surrounded by Men in San Diego

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Hundreds of boys fighting over a ball in short shorts pretty much sums up my experience this weekend in San Diego. Two of my girlfriends and I made our way south to watch a rugby tournament. I had never seen a game of rugby in my life and let me just say, I was pleasantly surprised with [...]

Race: Does it Really Matter When it Comes to Dating?

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I’m notoriously famous for liking black men. I like the way they look, their chiseled physiques and their swag. Yes, I said swag. Even though, I’ve only technically dated one black guy, I’m teased religiously by friends and co-workers who are amused by the idea. But really, what’s the big deal? It’s only a color [...]

Talking — An Easy Out?

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Talking – the generic way to say that you are attached without the full commitment. The ability to say “no” without lying when someone asks if you’re off the market and the freedom to do whatever you want, when you want, with whom you want, because you aren’t exclusively dating anyone. Or at least that’s [...]

He’s Got Big Shoes to Fill

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You hear it from a friend, see it on Facebook or God forbid in person…she’s got another dude. I’d been waiting for this to happen since we broke up, like a Death Row inmate sitting in his cell, listening for the footsteps of the Warden coming down the hallway. “Nick.  It’s time.” I’m being a [...]

The Night I Lost My Teeth

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I need to grow up– this is evident as I look in the mirror and see two gaping holes in my mouth where my beautiful teeth used to be. I blame the pumps– my five inch heels with two inch platforms, more like “weapons” than actual shoes. So let me explain… It was Saturday and I [...]